I feel no anathema towards gays (or homosexuals in American speak), but I must admit that I feel uncomfortable when they flout their "gaydom" openly ---something that I believe should be kept hidden. 1. Homosexuals is not "American speak" it if the proper term for men with same who experience same sex attraction. "Gay" is American speak and it is about men who choose to live a certain life that involves having relationships with other men. I'm probably old-fashioned but I cringed ...

A year ago I wanted to write a book about men. Well, not only a year ago, but many times. And this would have been a book where I got many men, most of them straight, to tell the truth about many questions. But men are liars and so this never really panned out. I thought, how will I tackle this subject? But then doesn’t it make more sense to address the subject of one man instead of all men and that man be me? Doesn’t it make more sense to answer my questions and tell my story? And maybe so...